Concerned

Gen · Post by **Gen** » Wed Aug 24, 2005 3:03 pm

I debated with myself a long time before starting this thread. Decided it was the right thing to do.

I've been concerned because last week two members made fun of another member on several occasions. This was very cruel! After a complete reading of the board, I hope that these two are deeply ashamed of themselves and will NEVER do this again! Thank you.

Shorty · Post by **Shorty** » Wed Aug 24, 2005 3:32 pm

Wow, How have I missed this!!!! I havent read anywhere of anyone making fun of anybody, hope they werent making fun of me

Can you please tell me where?? I'd like to be aware of these problems as well!!

popo · Post by **popo** » Wed Aug 24, 2005 4:06 pm

WHO WHAT WHERE WHEN????

I missed it too, I think. Unless of course it was me making fun, in which case I haven't missed it, but I still don't know when and where and what.

Have you PMd the guilty parties? If you have it can't be me. Phew! If you haven't it could still be me and I'm sitting here biting my fingernails. Gnash, gnash.

Give us a clue, please.

laura n. · Post by **laura n.** » Wed Aug 24, 2005 4:31 pm

I'm with you Popo, I hope it wasn't me,

if it was it wasn't intentional.... I'm gnawing away in suspense.

Davimad · Post by **Davimad** » Wed Aug 24, 2005 4:37 pm

Gen,

If this is the case, I think the best course of action would be to PM the two responsible.
Knowing you, it must be pretty grim because you wouldn't open a thread like this willy nilly.
I wouldn't have a clue Gen, the forum has been a pretty remote place for me in recent weeks.

All I can add to this is, hopefully the person isn't too hurt or hasn't been chased away.

Anyone who knows they are responsible should write a PM with an apology. We don't need any more nastiness on this board, there's been enough in the past to last a lifetime.

the cat · Post by **the cat** » Wed Aug 24, 2005 4:52 pm

I truely Hope is wasn't me. were was it so we can all read it and be aware.

Davimad · Post by **Davimad** » Wed Aug 24, 2005 4:57 pm

Cathy, it wouldn't be you. There isn't a nasty bone in your body dear so don't worry.

I don't think we should be asking Gen to divulge who it is, the person this cruelty has been directed at should be allowed some dignity.

Gen · Post by **Gen** » Wed Aug 24, 2005 5:01 pm

oops.

the cat · Post by **the cat** » Wed Aug 24, 2005 5:08 pm

No Gen don't say ooops, You did the right thing.
I for one are the nosey type. and a need to know. I do have a little devil in me ever once in a while.

ann3120 · Post by **ann3120** » Wed Aug 24, 2005 5:13 pm

Gen - I'm concerned too, as you have mentioned this. I agree with Mo, it must be serious for you say something.

I do hope it wasn't me - I'm going to check my posts to make sure there wasn't anything offensive in one of them.

Cat · Post by **Cat** » Wed Aug 24, 2005 5:47 pm

Ann, no way could it be you, you are a sweet heart!

I try not to hurt anyone's feeling so I hope it wasn't me.

ann3120 · Post by **ann3120** » Wed Aug 24, 2005 6:04 pm

Thank you, Kathy. . . . . and No, it couldn't possibly be you.

This is worrying, isn't it.

I hope it gets cleared up very soon, and we can go back to having fun.

Cat · Post by **Cat** » Wed Aug 24, 2005 6:36 pm

the cat wrote:No Gen don't say ooops, You did the right thing.
I for one are the nosey type. and a need to know. I do have a little devil in me ever once in a while.

I can second that on The Cat having a little devil in her.

But she is a fun nice lady.

Cat · Post by **Cat** » Wed Aug 24, 2005 6:38 pm

ann3120 wrote:Thank you, Kathy. . . . . and No, it couldn't possibly be you.

This is worrying, isn't it.

I hope it gets cleared up very soon, and we can go back to having fun.

Ann don't worry about it, just go on having fun, it's not you Dear!

SharonM · Post by **SharonM** » Wed Aug 24, 2005 10:34 pm

I hope I haven't offended anyone. If I have, it was entirely unintentional, I assure you, and I apologize. Just please let me know so that I can try to make it right.

Shorty · Post by **Shorty** » Thu Aug 25, 2005 2:26 am

Well Gen.. are you going to tell any of us ??? You came out and posted it now we're all dying to know who was making fun of who!! I two hope it wasnt be but I am 99% sure it wasn't I mean I'm not that kinda person, only loving comments

popo · Post by **popo** » Thu Aug 25, 2005 7:00 am

Well I've been looking through the posts for last week, and I can't see anything wrong in any of them. I would have thought that if anyone was being nasty, other people would have noticed and said something. It is strange that Gen seems to be the only one to notice anything.

You'll have to be more specific Gen, none of us know what you're talking about.